Couples Therapy in East Patchogue, NY
When the same fights keep happening and you feel far apart, it helps to have a calm, experienced guide in the room. In person or online across New York.
Does this sound familiar?
- You keep having the same argument
- You feel more like roommates than partners
- Trust has been broken and you don’t know how to rebuild it
- You want to stay together, but something has to change
No sides, no blame. Just a better way to talk to each other.
How I help
I help couples slow down the conflict, understand what’s underneath it, and practice new ways of listening and responding.
Whether you’re engaged, married for decades, or recovering from an affair, we work on what matters most to both of you.
- Emotionally Focused Therapy
- Imago Relationship Therapy
- Practical communication tools
- Rebuilding trust after infidelity
- 27 Years
in Practice - Licensed in
New York (LCSW) - Most Insurance
& Medicare
What we can work on
- Communication and conflict. Breaking the cycle of the same old fight.
- Infidelity. Making sense of what happened and deciding together what comes next.
- Premarital counseling. Building strong habits before you say “I do.”
- Addiction in the relationship. When drinking or using is part of the strain.
What working together looks like
1. Free 15-minute call
A brief, no-pressure conversation to see if we’re a good fit.
2. Your first session
A chance to talk more, set some goals, and make a plan together.
3. Real progress, at your pace
Ongoing support with practical tools and a focus on what matters to you.
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Questions about couples therapy
What if my partner doesn’t want to come?
You can start on your own. Individual sessions can still change how you show up in the relationship, and many partners join later.
Do you take sides?
No. My job is to help you both feel heard and to look at the pattern between you, not to decide who’s right.
How much does couples therapy cost?
Self-pay couples sessions are $100, and a sliding scale is available. I’m in network with most major plans, including Aetna, Cigna, Empire BCBS, Oxford, UnitedHealthcare and Medicare.
Can we meet online?
Yes. I see clients in person in East Patchogue and by secure video anywhere in New York State, Monday to Saturday, including evenings.
